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মিথ্যা : A Misconception

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ডিচেম্বৰ মাহ, সোনকালে আন্ধাৰে আৱৰি ধৰে। সন্ধিয়া ৬ মান বাজিচিল তেতিয়া, আন্ধাৰ হোৱা বাবে মোৰ অকলে খোজকাঢ়ি আহিবলৈ অলপ ভয় লাগিছিল। এজনী ছোৱালীৰ বাবে আন্ধাৰত অকলে আহিবলৈ ভয় লগতো স্বাভাৱিক কথা। কিয় সেইটো কোৱাৰ মই প্ৰয়োজনবোধ নকৰোঁ।মই tomtom ( ই- ৰিক্সা) বিচাৰিবলৈ ধৰিলো। কিন্তু মোৰ ঘৰৰ ফালে আহিবলৈ সকলোৱে টান পায়, ৰাস্তা বেয়া যে। আজি ২৫ বছৰে সেই কেঁচা ৰাস্তা টোৱে দেখি আহিছোঁ, উন্নতি নহল আৰু ইমান বছৰে। অৱশেষত এজন মান্তি হল আহিবলৈ। কিন্তু তেওঁ ৰাস্তাটো ভালকৈ চিনি নাপাওঁ কলে, মই কলোঁ হব মই কৈ যাম কোনফালে যাব লাগে ,আপুনি বলক। অলপ আহি মই এখন বেকাৰী দোকানত ৰব কলো, কিন্তু দোকান খনত ইমান ভিৰ আছিল যে মোৰ ৩ টা পিয়াজী লওতে ১৫ মিনিট গুচি গল। বেয়াও লাগিছিল মানুহজনক ইমান দেৰি ৰখালো, কিন্তু তেওঁ একো নকলে আৰু tomtom খন আকৌ start দিলে। মোৰ আগৰ পৰাই এটা অভ্যাস যে মই গাড়ীত উঠিলেই গান শুনা আৰম্ভ কৰোঁ, যি গাড়ী এ নহওঁক আৰু যিমান দূৰেই নহওঁক কিয় মোৰ যাত্ৰা। কিন্তু মই কালি প্ৰথমবাৰৰ বাবে গান শুনা নাছিলোঁ। নাজানো কিয়, কিবা পৰিবেশ টো যেন মোৰ অস্বাভাৱিক লাগিছিল। বাৰে বাৰে ঘড়ীটো চাই আছিলোঁ মবাইল ৰ স্ক্ৰীন ত। ঘ...
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Mantra-a-DMAIC!

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“I just don’t get time for all this” “What do you do for the entire day?” And I remained silent. My Dad was complaining I don’t do anything except using my phone and laptop, and I even stopped writing. It’s been 5 months since I wrote my last blog! I don’t know what I do, but at the end of the day, I just don’t have any time. Do you feel me? Do you too have a very long to-do list and think that 86,400 seconds a day are not enough for the ambitious agenda!? Then, you are reading the right blog because I just discovered the Magic Mantra to solve this! And the mantra is very simple, it’s just a 5 letter word – D M A I C! It means Define, Measure, Analyze, Improve, and Control. Trust me, this mantra can literally solve anything. It is actually a 5 step quality or process improvement strategy used by many organizations. Still, we can easily use it in our day-to-day lives. Let’s proceed step by step: Step 1: Define the problem Ask yourself, what is the problem? In my case, it is undoub...
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Get your Book of Magic

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“But, why should I keep a diary?”, this is what my brother asked looking at his B’day gift and I simply smiled and said, “because it will add magic to your life!” Have you ever felt the need to keep a diary? Or you too feel why should we do that? If its so, then you should definitely read this blog! I have been keeping a diary since 2008, almost lost the habit, did not write for about 2 years, and again started from 2019. I know it seems a little bit laborious to jot down every trivial detail of your existence, its challenging to get time out of your busy schedules to sit and write but trust me in the end it pays off! Okay, coming back to the question – WHY? I have four points to convince you: 1.      Keep your memories alive Do you remember all the mischiefs you did as a kid? But isn’t it fun to listen to your own stories from your Grandma or Aunts? Its like meeting your old version! Similarly, with the passage of time, we forget the little thin...
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Surviving Within Oneself

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Do you spend most of your time worrying about yourself, thinking how to be better than the rest? Do you feel you are not good enough because someone else did better than you? Relax... It happens with everyone! The world we live in is fast-paced. Going fast in every way is what we celebrate, 'ten-on-ten' is something everyone strives for and our lives are steeped in the energy for struggle-the opposite of  peace.  Our preoccupations with 'money, fame and image' are contributing to our sense of malaise. We may think, we are striving for happiness; but, what do we actually mean by  happiness ? We are so engrossed in the external chaos and fleeting joy that most of us do not even realize that we desire inner peace!  According to author Wayne W. Dyer, "Peace is the result of retaining your mind to process life as it is, rather than as you think it should be." And we all should really give some attention to these words. Life is all about making best out of the...
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Winning Chant

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                      Have you ever stopped right before doing something that you always have wanted to do just because you thought you would mess it up , or have you ever wanted so bad to tell somebody something but didn’t cause you thought that it wouldn’t be worthy , or have you ever thought about yourself as a loser and all the bad things always happen to you only !?!?! If any of these question’s answer is yes, then you are at the right blog my dear. Hi, today I am here to provide you the magical  Aabraa kaa Daabraa  mantra to be a winner or at least not to be a loser.                     But prior to that let’s find out what is that force that stops you always to do whatever you want to do. Now you will tell that a voice is there which always pulls you down or push you back. So, what’s that voice, who is that voice? And the answer is Self-Talk an...
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